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Let's be real—my life often feels like one big juggling act. Between being a mom, a wife, and running my business, there are plenty of days where I feel like I'm dropping balls left and right. Some days I'm totally on top of my work but forget that one school form. Other days I'm the fun, present mom but my studio looks like a crime scene. And don't even get me started on the laundry pile.
If you've ever felt overwhelmed trying to "do it all," trust me—you're not alone. I've been there more times than I can count, and I've learned a few things along the way that keep me sane (most days).
1. Redefine What "Balance" Really Means
For the longest time, I thought balance meant everything had to be equal: work, family, house, self. Spoiler alert—it doesn't. Balance is fluid, and it shifts with the season you're in.
Sometimes work gets the spotlight, other times my kids do, and every now and then—I get a little time just for me. I remind myself of the quote: "You can do anything, but not everything." It takes the pressure off.
💡 Takeaway: Balance as a mom and business owner isn't about doing it all perfectly—it's about shifting priorities without guilt.
2. Build Systems, Not Just Schedules
I used to be a paper-and-pen calendar girl, but I finally made the leap to Google Calendar—and honestly, it's made life a little easier. Everything's color-coded now: kids' activities, appointments, and work tasks. It's not perfect, but at least I don't forget dentist appointments or double book us as much anymore.
And here's the funny thing: even my calendar is color-coded for balance. I like being able to glance at my week and see that it isn't all work or all family—it's a mix. That little visual reminder keeps me grounded.
Other little systems that keep me sane:
- A catch-all basket on every floor of my house for everyone's random "stuff." (I use a laundry basket 🤫)
- Batching tasks—like writing emails, packing orders, or tackling all the kids school paperwork—instead of ping-ponging between ten different things.
- Keeping stocked with easy win meals for nights when no one has the brain space to think (examples: breakfast for dinner, tacos, grilled cheese, or my one pasta dish).
And here's a confession: Mr. Trish is the cook in our house. Me? I can make eggs and exactly one pasta dish—that's it. 😂 Having him as the chef and me as the calendar-keeper has become one of our best "systems."
💡 Takeaway: Systems don't have to be fancy. Even small routines can reduce overwhelm for moms juggling work and family.
3. Learn to Say No (Without Guilt)
Every "yes" to something is a "no" to something else. I used to overcommit, then wonder why I was exhausted and cranky. Now, I ask myself: "Is this going to matter to me in six months?" If the answer's no, I politely decline.
A recent example? I was asked to take on a position with the PTA. I knew deep down it would stretch me too thin, so I said no—but I still attend the meetings and stay involved in a way that works for me. That felt like the right balance.
💡 Takeaway: Saying no doesn't make you less committed—it makes space for what truly matters.
4. Prioritize Small Joys
A cup of tea before everyone wakes up. A 20-minute walk while listening to 90s music. (Yes, Alanis Morissette still makes me feel like I can take on the world.) These tiny rituals are what refill my cup.
Here's one of my quirks: I can only guarantee that one main room in my house will be spotless at a time. If the kitchen is shining, the living room looks like a tornado. And that's okay. I gave up the idea that my whole house has to look "Instagram-ready" at once. One clean space = one calm space for me to breathe.
💡 Takeaway: Self-care doesn't have to be spa days—it can be small, everyday joys.
5. Ask for Help (Because You Deserve It)
Here's the truth: we're not meant to do this alone. Whether it's tag-teaming Costco trips with Mr. Trish, my kids pitching in with chores, or outsourcing a few business tasks—I've learned asking for help isn't weakness.
Every fall, as I start gearing up for holiday markets and the rush that comes with them, my whole family gets pulled in. My mum helps with inventory tracking, Mr. Trish takes over dinners, my kids happily stick labels on jewelry boxes, and friends jump in to lend a hand at markets. It's not perfect, but it reminds me that asking for help can turn chaos into teamwork.
As a friend once reminded me: "Asking for help doesn't mean you're failing; it means you're human."
💡 Takeaway: Accepting help isn't weakness—it's a strategy for survival.
Finding balance as a mom, wife, and business owner isn't about perfection—it's about giving yourself permission to let go of what doesn't matter and focus on what does. Some days will be messy, and that's okay.
If you've been feeling overwhelmed, take this as your reminder: you're doing better than you think. And if all else fails—pick one room, make it sparkle, and call it a win. 💛
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